Some say it is better to keep away from getting caught up in an obvious rollercoaster relationship, where your series is breaking up and then getting back together. But, what if it is exactly the right thing to do? What if it she/he is the only one that owns your heart?
The thing, there are different types of exes. There are exes who are fully history, the ones that we know that they were completely wrong for us and we wouldn’t bonk again even if they were the last person on earth. And then there are others, the ones who we lost due to unavoidable circumstance, the ones who got tired of our crap, the ones we miss every day. The ones who give our relationships a meaning. They are the ones who got away.
These kinds of exes are the ones who are always on minds, control our heads but they are just out of reach. They are the ones our heart yearnings don’t cease for, the ones we think we spot in a mall and our heart pumps more before we realize that’s it not them. It’s just an attendant. It’s not them. And then we go back in our apartment feeling lonely.
In such a situation, it’s really hard to not want to try again, its hard to not to want them back. I guess shouldn’t blame you for doing what all the movies and TV instructs us of how To Get Your Ex Back.
What This Article Is About?
Long article alert! This article is really a long, in-depth article but I highly recommend you read it entirely because it is going to help you to not only learn how to get your Ex back but to also to regain your piece of mind, confidence, power and the sense of self-worth. You are also going to see that this article explains every step of the way right from your break up and immediately what to do afterwards.
In this article, its about a six step plan that will magically attract your Ex back to you. It is important to follow them because you don’t need to rash and make any mediocre moves that will hurt your chances of getting him/her back. You need to do this the right way, and that means re-engaging with a lot of caution and more confidence than before.
However, for those of you that don’t like reading too much, here’s a shorter version of the article. (Although I highly recommend you read it entirely because it is going to help you to not only get your Ex back but to also to regain yourself recovery in the and change how you perceive break ups)
Here are some of the things that will be covered:
Step 1: Cut off contact with him. That means no calling, texting, or asking around about how he or she is doing
Step 2: Deadly Mistakes which will make look like a needy and desperate that you can’t afford to make If you want to Get your Ex Back
Step 3: Reinventing and Transforming Yourself To Meet Your Ex Needs (Become a better version of yourself).
Step 4: Getting back in contact with Your Ex (here’s what to do)
Step 5:Contact Mama Anne for a powerful get your ex back spell (Particularly if you were married or in a very serious relationship and want to continue in a serious relationship.)
Step 1:Cut off with him( follow No contact rule)
This rule needs you to basically cut off all the communication with your ex for a certain amount of time.
Yes, I know there’s nothing harder than to cut complete contact with your ex especially when you still love him/her with all your heart.
I know now you are like: Ohh no Amal (in a crying mode).. ‘What if they forget about me completely? What if their love shifts to someone else?’
Well don’t be afraid if it was love because love is stronger that even after years of no contact, if you contact, it will get the same love back… Love doesn’t fade away!
I have witnessed 80% success rate of couples who used no contact rule so, if that doesn’t tell you how important it is then I don’t know what will And it’s deadly serious – no contact rule means no communication with your ex at all in any way shape or form for a certain amount of time. Here’s what required of you:
- No phone calls or texts
- No casual hanging out with your ex
- No stalking (looking at their online profiles, tweeting, snap chatting, or even going over old texts you saved in your cellphone)
- No text messaging of any kind
- No “targeted” emotional posts on social media posts directed at them
- No using your mutual friends or family to get information about your ex.
It seems harsh, isn’t it? But it’s what it is. It is what you need to do even though your body and mind keep on resisting it.
What You Need To Do When Applying No Contact Rule
When applying the No Contact Rule:
- Ensure that your Ex phone contact is not stored in your phone contact list so as to resist the temptation of calling or texting them. You can decide to copy their phone number or email address and put it somewhere far away. Then delete the email address from your computer and their numbers from your phone.
- Remove any photos and reminders you have of your ex from your life immediately. Put them in a box or suitcase and get rid of them immediately. Or you can put them in storage but just avoid the temptation of opening them at all costs. You don’t need things that keep on reminding you about them. Looking at old pictures of you together.
“We looked so good together!”
- Also this applies to social media sites. If you have a social media account and your ex is one of your friends, it is better to block or unfriend them. Well this may seem like an immature move but its better than spending hours and hours stalking their Facebook posts. This will also prevent the urge to text them like Hi, I thought of stopping by to say Hi.
- Lastly, ensure to keep a busy schedule. I know it’s the last thing you may want to do, but it’s the easiest way to force yourself to get over the attachment you had for your ex. It refrains you from sitting at home in the dark all day with nothing to do but only wondering what your ex-boyfriend is up to. Of course you need time to rest your mind, but keep on entertaining thoughts of analyzing the good side of the failed relationship.
What are the psychological reasons behind the no contact rule and how goes make your ex realize that they want you back?
- Right now, you are in a state of despair which can make you do silly things such as texting and begging your ex to take you back. To them, that’s just unnecessary “drama” and it turns them off because that ex lacks empathy.
- The no contact time will allow you to cool down, improve your mental clarity, process your feelings and enable you to think rationally about the real reasons as to why you broke up.
- If your ex feel that you are living your life and not pinning or obsessing over him anymore, it will squeeze him trying to figure out what it is that you’re suddenly up to and what’s “stopping you from obsessing over him. It will make him realize that he has really lost you and even regret leaving you.
- REMEMBER THIS: People long for want what they can’t have, it’s natural. When you are out of their life, they will start looking for you because you are unavailable to them. They won’t be able to try to get you back if you are in constant contact with them!
- By ignoring your ex you are denying them certain freedoms (the freedom to talk to you.). They are going to react in a way to try to get that freedom back.
- If you deny your ex certain freedom (freedom to talk to you), they will start to wonder why. This way you’re turning the table on them and gaining control over the situation.
- The fact that you are not in contact with your ex, it will make it easier for you to think soberly about your failed relationship and the direction you want to head to. So,you won’t be able to analyze and evaluate the failed the relationship when you when the you are feeling is still at its maximum level.
Frequently Asked No Contact Questions
What if i can’t avoid not contacting my EX?
The no contact rule requires no contact with your EX at all, but what if circumstances doesn’t favor me? What if I have to see them every day at my work place or I study at the same class with my ex? What if we have a child together?
Well some conditions may not warrant you to do no contact or not to respond to your ex’s texts or phone calls but still it is possible to affect the No Contact rule.
If you study at the same class or work in the same place with your ex , you can talk with your ex but as long as you don’t discuss about the failed relationship, the two of you and how the two of you should come back together.
If you have a child together, you can tell your ex you will not call them for some time explaining the reason why, or you can be calling them in order to talk to your child but don’t talk about anything concerning the two of you.
Should I tell my ex that I am doing no contact?
No. The point of NC is to make them wonder why you haven’t made an effort to contact them, sometimes they worry that maybe you have moved on so as a result they end up contacting you. By making an announcement that you’re doing what you are doing,they are less likely to wonder why you haven’t contacted them.
But, If they are constantly calling you for ‘catch up’, politely let tell them know that you are you are doing NC for some time. Don’t get into any discussions about it- keep it short. Just let them that you time for yourself and that friendship is not an option.
Won’t No Contact push my ex away?
If you were in it for a serious relationship, then no it won’t – it will instead give your ex time and space to breathe. This makes him miss you and think about you at a certain point. You push them away when you’re always available for them. And don’t expect them to miss you when you are always messaging them asking for hangouts and stuff.
Won’t my ex forget about me and find someone else during the no contact period?
When your ex left you, all the wounds that led to it are still fresh in their head. There is still a lot of anger and pain so, according to them, reconciliation seems unthinkable. Your ex needs time and space to cool off.
However, in spite of all the bad things that happened, your ex won’t forget you easily. Because, during your relationship, there is a lot of shared history, memories, routines etc that can’t be so easily rubbed from your ex’s mind.
The time spent apart will makes your ex’s bad memories of you fade and reset their mental image of you. The saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder” is true-if you give them space, the memories of the good times will shine through and they will start missing you. But they won’t miss you if you are still in contact with them.
The fact is, giving them time is going to make them miss you and reset your mindset so that you are attractive to them as possible. The only available option is calling constantly, begging them to take you back, and stalking them- which really never works. Have a trust that this is the best way of how to get your ex back (and keep them for good).
What if you run into your ex in the “no contact” period?
First of all, avoid places where your ex goes so as to avoid bumping into him “on purpose” because it will jeopardize the progress you’ve made so far.
However if it is coincidental bumping into your ex, here is what you should do: firmly look them into the eye and smile. Say something like “Hi,”. Be calm, positive, and polite while you’re talking to them. Let them lead the conservation but whatever it is don’t treat it like it is a pre-arranged coffee date. Just act toward him as you would with any other person, and be off with yourself.
Wouldn’t it be rude if I don’t contact my ex?
Wasn’t it inconsiderate of your ex to extremely break your heart and let you beg them to take you back? And, despite everything you’ll successfully be with them.Rudeness is not always as awful as you think it seems to be.
Besides no contact is good for your emotional health. There is nothing wrong with giving yourself time to gather your thoughts, process your emotions and rebuild yourself.
What if my Ex calls or emails me during no contact
Reply them but not right away. Make sure you do it on your own terms. Make them wait for like 24hrs to text him back or 2days to email. The reason for waiting is to show them that you are not readily available. That you’re not sitting around waiting for them to contact you because you’re too busy enjoying your life, even though cry yourself to sleep every night missing him.
What If I Break the Rules?
If you make a mistake and end up contacting your ex – there’s nothing to be done but you need to start the no contact again from square one. Though contacting your ex during no contact period up sets all the hard work you have done, but don’t beat yourself up if you break it. Just be gentle with yourself.
But remember next time to fight the urge and not to lose control because you need at least 30 days when you don’t rely on your ex for a conversation. Because talking to your ex after a break day will damage your chances of getting with your ex. Try to keep your ground, because once you appear desperate they will be annoyed and it will hurt you again.
How Long Should No Contact Last?
In reality, there is no a distinct period of time that is fixed regarding this technique. Everyone’s situation is different and plus no two exes have the same personalities- a good factor which should be considered whenever trying to shape into how the no contact should go for.
A period of 30 days is quite ok. However it should be extended when it is undeniably important. Putting other factors constant, the longer you stay with no contact your ex, the more they are going to miss you and the more you are going to make a much better progress than when you contact them faster out of the need to return salutations. Like I said earlier above, real love doesn’t fade away.
Step 2: Deadly mistakes to avoid during no contact rule
It is really not worthy to fail to get your ex back just you are unaware that you are making these mistakes. These mistakes are quite natural and not easily spotted by yourself because when you are desperately trying to get your ex back, your mind is always over powered by emotions and doesn’t think logically.
It’s black and white that you are still loving them, it’s black and white that you would regret it if you just tie down your hands and do nothing with your ex until they have moved on with someone else. And it’s likely that your mind has been wired and doesn’t recognize these mistakes as mistakes.
So, here these 9 common mistakes which will blow your chances of getting your ex back
Mistake 1# Reaching out to him says he’s the best you can do.
The desire to reach out to your ex and to let them know how much you still care; how much you love them and tell them that you’re willing to do anything to make it work can sometimes feel like an urge to scratch an itchy spot that you can’t seem to get to.
The word break up means separation, so if it got to this point, tying your shoelaces together and sit on your hands is necessary for a while.
No matter how things may have ended, the fact that you are no longer together means that things were beyond repair for at least one of you; whoever decided to end things. You need to disappear for a while so you both can work on yourself. If you really love them, time will only benefit you, so you should not rush into a second chance. You won’t get a third.
Mistake 2# Begging or pleading for another chance
When a person is chased what do they do? That’s right, they run. So,If your ex has decided to end the relationship, no amount of begging or pleading or using pity will bring back your ex to you.
Words like ‘“Please babe, don’t walk away from me, don’t throw what we had together in a trash. I need you so much. You mean the world to me and without you am empty! I know Iam wrong, but I’m ready to change. I beg you! Please just give me one more chance. Please!” They won’t move your ex
You can’t try to convince someone into wanting you back. That is totally a decision that they have to come to on their own. They are not ready to hear anything yet. And if you risk crossing that line before their ears are tuned into the right frequency, you run the risk of shutting them down permanently. That’s when it will hurt you the most.
So let them make their own conclusions about the relationship. Don’t dare ask him how his love life is going now; let them realize by themselves that breaking king up isn’t as good as they thought.
Healing comes from taking responsibility to realize that it is you- and no one else- that creates your thoughts, your feelings, and your actions.” Peter Shepherd.
Mistake #3: Trying To Make Him Jealous By Talking About Other Guys
If your ex senses that you are scheming on making them jealous, it may remind them of all negative aspects of your past relationship and the reason for the breakup and all it will do is make you look desperate. You don’t want that.
Or if not, trying to make your ex jealous will just only ruin your plan when they say something like this: ‘Okay its fine. Go on with your life. Don’t ever contact me again.” Am sure you also don’t want that either.
Mistake 4# Allowing them to walk all over
After a breakup, your only instinct is to just give your ex everything they want/desire thinking that it will get you back together. Your guts are telling that having your ex back is the only thing that matters and you accept to be a door mat.
But guess what?
It only gives your ex the power to walk right over you and use you whenever the situation is favorable. Nothing more!!
If you treat them like a perfect angel and that you can’t your life without them (not true). Why would they respond positively towards someone they know they have some control over and can get them back anytime they want to? Where is the equality in a relationship? Where is the challenge here.
If he’s getting everything he wants from you without doing any work or having to get back together with you, what incentive does he have to rekindle the relationship?
If they are getting anything they want from you without any effort or having making reconciliation with you, what is the reason for them to get back to you?Nothing!!
Basically, you are making yourself less attractive as a person and it also knocks your perceived value down a few notches. This undermines the relationship even more because nobody wants to be with someone they don’t respect.
Mistake #5: Trying To Use Pity To Get Him Back
You can’t get ex back if you continually post sad updates to all of your social media accounts or showing everyone around you know that you are miserable. You will not get your back if you keep showing your ex that they are the only good that have happened to you and that you desperately want them back. Instead show your ex that your life is getting back together even after the destruction of the breakup. Emotional strength and resilience are attractive qualities.
Mistake #6: Calling and texting all the time
” We broke 3days ago but since then, I text him every day but he barely replies. I have to write him a thousand times before he just responds once. I really love him and I can’t stop missing him. I just want things to go back to normal like the way they used to be. But he is distancing away from me and ignoring my messages. Why is he acting like a totally different person?”
This reason why no contact rule is an important thing to do if you want to get your ex back. Right now your intuition is telling you that if you stop contacting your ex, they will soon forget about you and move on with someone else. But it does really work like that. Instead, constant calling and texting will only push your ex further away and make them realize that they were right to break up with you.
As hard as it is, it’s best to follow the no contact rule. Without it, it’s mostly likely that you will make this common fatal mistake. Don’t let your intuitions screw with you.
Mistake #7: Freaking out when he is dating someone else.
You might think that your ex has permanently ditched you for someone else, but this is not true. Understand that your ex has just lost someone who gave them constant attention, affection and care and just jumped into a relationship with whoever takes them so as to fill this void. However, panicking and scream at your ex out at the top of your lungs just because they have changed their relationship status will drive him or her ex further away.
If your ex immediately starts to date after your break up, that is obviously a rebound relationship which can’t last long because there is still unresolved feelings between the both of you. Soon enough your ex will fail to connect with their new partner and, it will make them long powerfully for the familiarity of you, particularly if they found you to be deeply rewarding in the past. They will finally come back crawling to you after they realize what they lost and that they will never love that new partner as deeply as you.
What should you do?
If you’re the ex in this situation, what does all this mean for you? A part from improving the healthy relationship with own self, all you can do is wait and see— do it with patience. Trying to interfere with your ex’s current relationship will most likely remind your ex of the bad times you shared together. Just a reminder: you want to real look good next to your competition—good sportsmanship is sexy.
What If You’ve Already Made These Mistakes.
The probability of making some of these mistakes is high after the breakup. Don’t beat yourself up if you break it. Be gentle with yourself. It takes time to get used to not hearing from someone you normally talk to a thousand times a day. Even the strongest people of make these mistakes. It just in human nature to try not let go of things that mean the world to us. What is important now is to understand that these mistakes won’t yield ant positive results and stop doing them right now.Co to the next step and do the damage control.
STEP #3. Reinventing and Transforming Yourself To Meet Your Ex Needs
Am sure you could be asking yourself this question? What will I do with my self during this whole month of no contact?
Here is a simple answer: You are going to be reinventing and transforming yourself
You will want to keep yourself busy and distracted from the breakup with friends and outings, but also take some time to do some self-care.
Don’t sit around home moping, grieving and wasting time wishing for the whole one month. Rather, enjoy yourself, eradicate most of your weaknesses and make necessary improvements to ensure your desirability. During this time, you want to give off your ex the impression that you are fine on your own.
However things are not going to change if you are staying at home and just be miserable even after the no contact phase. Yes you need time to mourn, to cleanse yourself of the pain, then time alone with yourself after a break up, but then again there is a point in which you have to do other things too, in which you need time to go out there and make something out of your life.
This one month of no contact should be about making changes in your life in all areas which include physically, mentally and socially in order to have higher chances of getting your ex back.
The reason behind this is simple: your ex-partner thought that the current version of yourself was not enough. So, you must step up and change yourself not only for them, but for your betterment too.
Reinventing yourself physically
Reinventing your physical appearance is going to boost your confidence and give you a fresh look. You are going to feel good about yourself and get the long lasting impression from other people. And after if your ex sees after the no contact period, they are going to see a very pleasant person. So here are some of the things you should do:
- Drink enough water to stay hydrated and to improve the quality of your skin
- Eat healthy foods
- Choose physical activities. Go gym .This is important for your flexibility and strength.
- Brush your teeth at least twice a day.
- Shower daily and smell nice
- Freshen your breath
- Clean out your wardrobe. Get rid of anything that doesn’t look great on you and buy new ones.
In any decision take, don’t do anything bad that you might later on in your life( for example drawing a tattoo of a broken heart).
Reinventing yourself mentally
Having a positive mindset also highly improves your chances of how to get your ex back. Being happy and improving your confidence can definitely win your ex back. However, you need to realize that confidence and happiness are things that you need to work out on your own. So here are some of the things you need to do to boost your confidence and happiness.
Accept the grieve
At times when a breakup is sudden, it seems very hard to deal with and the mind goes frozen, shutting down and refusing to work for a time. It could be a minute, an hour or days. Grief after a breakup is normal and natural. It is normal to curling up on your couch and mourn the loss of your relationship. It is normal be upset, mad and hurt after break-ups especially unprepared for. However make sure you also do something to make yourself feel better.
Practice positive self talk
Avoid the negative voices that often run in your head telling you that we aren’t good enough for your ex, that you are stupid or unattractive. Don’t let these voices drag you down. Just to say to yourself that you are. You are too beautiful to let make you insecure of yourself. Just accept that even if you don’t get your ex back, there are million opportunities waiting for you out there-and your worthy should more than just feeling loved sometimes.
Keep a journal.
If you have many thoughts about your past relationship, do something active with them rather than keeping them in thoughts. You can talk to a friend, family member, support group or therapist. Or you can write them down. The point is to do something with the thoughts rather than just thinking them.
Go out with friends
Go out and socialize with your friends. This will give you less time to think about your ex. Bask in the sun or go or go out who care about you-your family and friends. This will give you a better view of the world you one time lived in…the world without your ex. “This one will raise high your self-esteem before you get back to your ex
Analyzing Your Relationship
Before looking for tips left and center of how to get your ex back, You need to ask yourself this question: ‘why do I want to get back with my ex?’ Is it that;
‘You miss him’
‘You miss having a boyfriend or girlfriend’
‘He made you feel better about yourself’,
‘He made you more secure in the world and happier’
If you find that you have identified with any of the points above then there is a really big likelihood that you are still in post-breakup denial and bargaining which are major stages of grief after a break up. It’s only natural that when we feel dumped, we want to discard this feeling, and this can affect our good judgment, it’s so dam bad to feel that such a decision has been taken out of our control and so we always want to win that person back regardless of whether we were ever actually happy or not. However, this is not always the right choice.
Weigh all the good and the bad times you had together and ask yourself is this really person can make you happy even when the excitement of being in love has worn off , or you are just clinging to each other despite the reality.
It is very crucial to take time after the break up and before trying to win your ex back to analyze your own emotions and determine if you truly its this person you should be with. Revival relationships usually suffer from a lack of trust and are more likely to run on-again-off-again with repeated breakups. If you’re not yet fully sure that it is this person you want to be with in the long-term, avoid more pain by trying your best to get over your ex instead of pursuing him or her again.
STEP #4. Contacting Your Ex aka Re-attraction
Do you recall the moment when your ex broke up with you? They saw right through you that you are needy, desperate, lonely , clingy and insecure behavior with no little bit of a self-respect that drove them away. After sometime of no hearing from you, wondering about what exactly is happening to you and start rekindling the good memories they had with you and the thing they found attractive about. This is the time they start missing you since “absence makes the heart grow fonder”.
Now is the perfect time to reach out to them
Now, before I jump into this, you need to know a few things before you first start texting her
If you’re 100% sure that you want to be with this person in the long-term even when the excitement of being in love has worn off and you are stuck in the daily routines of life.
You have taken time to get to know yourself as an individual and to work on areas that you may have let slip during your relationship with your ex.
You have not pursued your ex for a month or so and followed no contact rule
You know you are a better version of yourself – physically, mentally and spiritually
You know deep down your heart that even if things don’t work out with your ex, there are millions of other people out there waiting to give you the love happiness and care you’re looking for.
You’ve fully agreed on the fact that you and your ex have broken up, and you believe that you’ll leave your life with or without him.
If you can tick all these items on this list, then you’re ready to get in contact with your ex.
While the other side they have been missing you and remembering how attractive you were, for you have working on you and your self-worth which is a perfect combination
Assuming you just want to be friends, then I simple text (in roughly two months), saying something like:
“Hey, I respect your feelings and I understand if you say no, but I miss our conversations, would you want to get coffee sometime?”
I would recommend to first use texting first over calling because you have time to think about what to reply if you talk to your ex via text, and you don’t have to worry about any awkward moments when both of you run out of things to say to each other. You can later call after building up some attraction using text messages.
The Text Messages
Text messages are one of the greatest ways to get your back (if not the best).They help in building back an attraction with your ex–without humiliating yourself, coming off desperate and clingy, or losing your respect. If used the right way, be amazed at how they ‘decide’ to want you back all on their own, without hinting that you want them back in your life.
Sending your ex an empty message put them awkward spot of trying to interpret why you’re contacting him/her.If you have something to say, get right to the point.
“Hey” or “Yo.”
‘Hello, How are you’
Avoid any kind of emotional discussion with your ex
“I love you”
“I miss you”
‘I can’t leave without’
“I want you back in my life”
“Why didn’t you text me back?” or “Did you get my message?”
Arguing or saying something negative over text.
“You can’t dump your kids and family. You are terrible person to leave us like that.”
Directly if indirectly asking if they are dating anyone new.
How is your new boyfriend doing?
Now here are a few things that you should do while using text messages.
“I justcame across that video of us dancing along with “Boot Scootin’ Boogie” . Always makes me laugh. It made me think of you for the first time in a while. Hope you’re doing fine”.
Remind them of the many positive, fun and loving moments you used to share.
“Remember that time we jumped in that golf cart and backed it down? We were so scared…remember how we couldn’t quit chuckling when we hit the bottom and then realized we were safe? That look you gave me was priceless.”
“Hey, I was just thinking about the time we went mountain climbing. Man that was so fun. I am glad we did that”
Let them know that you are moving on with your life and having fun
”Hey you, I moved to France and I’m making a ton of new friends in my new neighborhood! Do you remember the name of the restaurant we went to when we went for a vacation in France last year? Their food was amazing just want to try it again”
Now there are huge amounts of different things you can do with texts. However, the key point continues as before. Be subtle. Be certain. Be entertaining.
At this moment, you simply need to go from the unpleasant ex to a fun text pal. Obviously, you will be advancing things gradually.
The key is to slowly and gradually reconnect with them and make them realize that you are worth fighting for. When you think that you are reconnected very well, continue and ask them out.
Asking for your ex a date
So you have done your homework correctly and ready to take a plunge into the same waters again. This is easier than falling in love with someone new. You know why? With someone new, both of you need to know about each other and take time to grow as a couple. However, when two exes get back together, the only new excitement in the relationship is the happy reunion of two old lovers. You are not strangers.
Wait for 2-3 days without and then call them-get straight to the point:
“Hey, sorry its been long without hearing from you, have been absolutely busy at my work place. Rather than do the phone or text-back-and-forth thing, allow me take you out for a cup of coffee so we can properly catch up.
Important to note: this isn’t a date. Never refer to it that way. However, in the back of your mind, you should treat it that way. And by the end the end of you have stirred up at least some of the original romantic feelings you once had for each other.
Remember you are not in a relationship with your ex yet. You have to treat them like any other person you want to be friends with.
On the Date
You need to friendly, funny and not to bore your ex. This is will enlighten up the mood and make your ex lay down their guards. However, don’t bring up the subject of your past failed relationship. There is no point digging old graves .
If they bring it up, it means that they still thinking about the break up. Allow them say whatever they want to say, then smile and say this:
“Let’s forget all that for now. I just wanted to hang out and catch up. ‘’
Step 5: Contact Mama Anne for a love spell
I usually get many people asking if it is really possible to get back your ex by applying the no contact rule. My answer is yes it is possible. Reports show a number of individuals who got back their exes using the NC rule. Much as it is possible, the figures aren’t too large. This shows that it is not a hundred percent a sure win that once you use NC with the intention of winning back your ex, you will obviously get back your ex. No Contact is one of the factors which can aid you in getting back your ex but cannot relied on to make it possible to get back your ex. Reading the guidelines on how to get back your ex using NC may look cheap but it is not cheap.
However if you contact Mama Anne on firstname.lastname@example.org for a powerful love spell, it will only take you 1-2weeks to get your ex back (No need to use the complicated no contact rule). If you were in a very serious relationship or married and want to continue in a serious relationship, you will only be likely to need an Psychic Mama Anne’s intuitive reading in order to discover the root of your problems and ensure that you can overcome them. After intuitive readings, Mama Anne will cast for you a very powerful spell that will remove any negative energy that separates the both of you and connecting a strong feeling of love and attraction. This spell combines certain herbs and oils and it takes only 1-2weeks to see the results.
Psychic have dealt with more 200 cases where the beginning seems like a totally hopeless cause to fight to get the ex-back, but when someone seek her help, he/she not only get their ex back into a relationship, but the ex becomes more devoted and loving to them than ever before.
It sounds hard to believe, does it?
….and yeah it is.
Winning an ex back looks like almost an impossible mission to accomplish.
I get it.
When someone you love tells you, “Don’t ever call me again!” it sounds final, but usually it isn’t the case. I’ve actually helped people get their ex back when their ex has refused to talk to them for months prior to using my help.
Just because they are saying, “Leave me alone!” ‘I don’t to see your face again’, it doesn’t mean you can’t get them back in your arms again.
What you need to understand is this…
Psychic Mama Anne’s spell can change the way that your ex feels about you. However, after getting back together, you will need to change where you see that you are wrong.
When you follow my instructions well, you can short-circuit your ex’s critical brain and awaken those strong feelings they still have for you in their heart no matter how hard they try to deny them…